Alex Dobrekno

Five Things I’ve Learned about America

  1. Sleepovers are completely normal.
  2. We take a lot for granted.
  3. America is not perfect.
  4. We are more similar than we think.
  5. America is a land of opportunity.

August 6, 2024

“I am a writer, actor, comedian, guy. I moved to America when I was 7, from Ukraine. I was born in the USSR, and then it switched to Ukraine. We left in 1994 and came to America as refugees, as Jewish refugees.”

Five Things I’ve Learned About America

  1. Sleepovers are completely normal.

    “My parents did not understand them, and they could not comprehend why I would want to go sleep on someone else’s floor when we had a bed at our apartment. They actually thought that me doing that indicated that we didn’t have a bed for me at home.”

  2. We take a lot for granted.

    “By moving here, my parents gave me the gift of not being able to understand them, and I think that is a gift that all Americans have, mostly. We have the gift of not knowing what it’s like in other places.”

  3. America is not perfect.

    “There is a lot of darkness, there is a lot of issues, for sure. But, I don’t think it’s as bad as in Russia, as in other places, many other places… Even if this is all a lie, I think it’s a better lie to believe in than any other.”

  4. We are more similar than we think.

    “I also think that we focus a lot on how different we are here, where actually we’re all very much the same, more or less.”

  5. America is a land of opportunity.

    “There is so much opportunity here to disappoint your parents. My parents wanted me to be a lawyer or doctor, they would have settled for a professor. But I decided to go be an entertainer in LA, a writer, and I got paid to write the weirdest stuff. That’s not possible in other countries the way it is here.”

Los Angeles, California

About Alex

Alex Dobrenko was born in Odesa, Ukraine and moved to America when he was 7 years old. He’s a writer, comedian and actor but mostly he’s just a lil guy.

These days, Alex is best known for his popular comedic newsletter Both Are True, where he writes absurd, honest, and deeply vulnerable personal essays. He also works as the Head of Creative at Sublime, a startup working towards building a calmer, more human internet.

You can catch Alex in the films KIMI from Steven Soderbergh and BABYLON from Damien Chazelle. He’s also made a few sort of viral comedy videos if you’re into that sort of thing.

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